You are not "the problem" and you are not alone 🫶
For the cycle breakers, the truth tellers, and the misrepresented…this is where your healing begins
Get to Know Me
I’m Kiki Mullican, known online as The Trauma Drama Mama. I’m a storyteller, educator, and advocate for the cycle breakers. I help people recognize emotional abuse, understand narcissistic family dynamics, and break trauma patterns that have followed them for years. My work is for anyone who grew up as the scapegoat, the truth teller, or the emotional caretaker in a dysfunctional or toxic family system. For most of my life, I was told I was “too sensitive”, too dramatic”, “the problem”… But the truth was that I wasn’t dramatic. I was being wounded and the people who created the wounds didn’t want to talk about them. Today, I use storytelling, education, and real life examples to help others: • identify narcissistic abuse and manipulation tactics • break free from toxic family cycles • learn the difference between trauma responses and personality • trust their intuition (especially after years of gaslighting) If you’ve ever felt unseen, blamed, or dismissed…if you’ve ever wondered if you really are the problem or if you really are being abused, you’re in the right place. You’re not “too sensitive” You’re not “hard to love” You were conditioned to believe that your needs were a burden. I’m here to give you language for what you lived through, clarity for what you’re feeling now, and the validation that you deserve but nobody ever gave you. This is not just healing…it’s identity reclamation. Welcome to the home of the cycle breakers.
The Cycle Breaker's Library
A library of healing chapters designed for cycle breakers: grab a single chapter, a bundle, or the complete playbook and start reclaiming your story today.
Pocket Mind Redesign
My AI-powered neuroscience coaching app — pocket-sized support to help you rewire old patterns, regulate your nervous system, and keep breaking cycles wherever you go.
